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TEEKOND ühest äärmusest teise: Connie Inglis seljatas anoreksia ja on elu üle tänulik. Tema uus ILUIDEAAL on kurvikas keha

TEEKOND ühest äärmusest teise: Connie Inglis seljatas anoreksia ja on elu üle tänulik. Tema uus ILUIDEAAL on kurvikas keha

NordenBladet — Kehakumerusi ülistaval Instagrami kontol ilutseb Connie Inglis. Ta on naine, kes seljatas anoreksia ja on elule nii tänulik, vahendab BBC.

Kui nüüd vaadata Connie Inglis´e fotosid, siis ei oskaks aimatagi, et ta pidas haiglas elu eest võitlust. Ta põdes anoreksiat alates 10-ndast eluaastast ja olnud haiglaravil kolmel korral. Kaks aastat tagasi kaalus ta sama palju, kui keskmine 5-aastane laps. Connie istus ratastoolis ja arvati, et ta elab veel vaid mõned nädalad. Nüüdseks on ta aga 22-aastane ja õpib ülikoolis kunsti.

“Ega mul polnud vahet, kas elan või suren. Ma tahtsin lihtsalt kaalu alandada,” ütleb Connie haigusperioodile mõeldes. See oli ime, et ta taastus ja nüüd on olnud tema sooviks ka teisi söömishäiretega inimesi aidata. “Haigusest toimuvale inimesele on oluline teada, et ta pole selles üksi,” ütleb ta.

How did I recover??? This post is for the many people messaging me asking for help. People asking me how I did it. I honestly wish I could give you an easy quick fix answer. I wish more than anything I had a magic wand to help you all! Everybody's recovery is different and valid no matter how long it takes. Here's mine (the very short version!) I was in the depths of anorexia and depression in late June 2016 I couldn't deal with it. I tried everything. But none of it worked I was loosing hope but then I realised I was trying to recover for my idea of a healthy body, it just wasn't happening. I had to get better for ME!!! So finally after 10 years I did EVERYTHING!!! I talked until I had no more words. I cried until my head felt like it was going to split. I asked my boyfriend to stop me doing every behaviour I had learnt to rely on. He took away my blades, he went to the toilet with me to make sure I didn't purge, he held me while I screamed and cried. And eventually I managed to start doing these things on my own. I started a recovery Instagram and the support was amazing. I joined a group chat with some incredible girls. I went to therapy. I went to eating groups. I set myself challenges that terrified me. And so so slowly it got easier….. There will be at least 100x a day you want to give up but every time you don't you get stronger and your ed gets weaker! It is possible!!! You can do this I fully believe in you!!! Recovery is possible!! #positivebeatsperfect #selflovebootcamp

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A lot of people have asking me how I did it. How I recovered so fast… the truth is, I didn't. An eating disorder is deceptive and horrible. It lures you in and makes you believe that you'd be nothing without it, you wouldn't survive without it. I used to believe my ed was my best friend but all it ever wanted to do was kill me. In the picture on the left I was 13 and had already been struggling for a long time. 💜 There are 8 years between these photos and in that time I have weight restored and relapsed countless times. I have tormented myself mentally and physically. I told myself I was horrible and unworthy of happiness. I have hated my body. I have starved it, I have hurt it, I have left unmeasurable damage. THIS IS NOT MY LIFE ANYMORE!! After 10 years I finally decided I loved my family and friends more than my illness. I decided that I wasn't to blame for everything that had happened. I decided that I deserved to be happy!!! So I finally let go… 💜 If your still struggling I am with you every step of the way. If you've been going through this for lifetimes and feel useless when you see others getting better, I completely understand. If you feel like your Ed is still taking care of you, I understand but I promise there are better things out there!!! If your not taken seriously because you don't fit into the typical anorexia box, your struggles are worthy and you deserve to be helped!!! If your turned away because of you weight, skin colour or gender, FIGHT LIKE HELL!! You deserve to be heard!!! 💜 I'm not telling you this for sympathy or to diminish anyone's struggles!! Everyone's struggles are valid!! But I want you to know that it is possible!! Yes I still have bad days. I still struggle but I'm stronger now and know that I deserve to be happy! Keep going, it's going to be the hardest thing you ever do but it's so worth it! Fight like hell and I'll be fighting with you!! #positivebeatsperfect

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Avafoto: Connie Inglis (Instagram @ my_life_without_ana)

 


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